Everyone’s favorite subject is themselves: If you’re meeting someone for the first time, are a little intimidated by someone, or in a situation with groups you are unfamiliar with get them to talking about themselves and ask follow-up questions as you hear key phrases and points being made while in conversation.Ĥ. What do you think when you see a really goofy dude with a beautiful sophisticated looking girl on his arm? You wonder what the heck he’s got going for him.ģ. Social Proof goes a long way: Before and after photos with physical transformations, testimonials for products, or a trusted opinion regarding a job. This goes for whether you’re approaching a guy/gal or deciding whether or not to go to the gym. Adhere to the 3-second rule: The longer you take to make a decision the greater the chance you will over-think it, get nervous, talk yourself out of it, or simply blow it altogether. What would be one simple thing you could do each day from all four categories that would contribute to a days worth of fulfillment for you? THE LESSONS I LEARNED FROM THE BOOKġ. Questioning traditional theories of thought (Status Quo).This is that often hard to explain feeling of needing to acquire self-actualization, unleash your creativity, and to connect with yourself, others, and the world around you. The club you frequent or the place you go dancing every thursday night.The social groups that you align yourself with most often. People you come into contact or converse with often (even the barista at Starbucks you see most days.)Ĭonsider this any clubs, organizations, or larger groups you are apart of.Various loved ones, family, friends, or those you are dating.This is the area of your life that may affect others and is often made up with those you communicate most often. What are some things that you can practice everyday that lead to your own personal growth and happiness. Think of this as an area of your life that affects you and you alone. The four categories of personal fulfillment start with: 1 – PERSONAL FULFILLMENT It could be something as simple as listening to a few select songs that put you in a good mood, starting your day with a workout, or meeting up with a friend for a cup of coffee.ĭiscovering and practicing those small things can lead to endless days of fulfillment, happiness, and purpose. THE FOUR FUNDAMENTALS OF DAILY FULFILLMENTĪll of us have a few things that if done everyday contribute dramatically to our well-being. Below you’ll find the most valuable, practical, and easy to implement tips from the book. Instead of a pick-up artists manifesto I consider it a lifestyle guide that helps you uncover the real you, what you want out of your life, and how to get those things. One that isn’t boring, is full of excitement, personal growth, and constant learning about yourself and others. The book isn’t really about picking up women at all, it’s about developing the habits, skills, and confidence that lead to living a better life. Yet so many of us are not practicing them either because we don’t know how or we’re unaware of just how valuable they are. The book covers common sense habits that should have been taught to us in school. Although the story is based around Neil’s life as a pick-up artist the life lessons learned in the book are unbelievably powerful. If you haven’t read Neil Strauss’s book “ The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup Artists ,” do yourself a favor and pick it up immediately.
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